Securing Your Future

Secure Your Future

For an organization

to survive competition,

It may sometimes result

In its pruning down

All areas of wastage

And reposition itself

For the challenges ahead

The painful thing

about such re-structuring

Is that human capital

 is victimised!

And when this occurs

There are tensions

And  serious industrial relations issues

There is agitation

Which even generates litigation

By those affected

And all these

Tend to produce negative results

For both the employees

And concerned concerned.

But employee and employer

Can reduce the gravity of the pains

By planning well ahead of time

Employers sacking staff

Should pay good severance package

While employees affected

Ought before then

To have made himself

An employer of labour

Either by engaging

In part-time business ventures

Like by investing in shares

Therefore every employee must,

From time to time

Critically review his or her life

Physically, spiritually and emotionally

To enable him survive

any negative development

Where the answer points to possible failure

We must take painful decisions

To put our lives on the right track

We must upgrade our values

from time to time

To bring about a secured future

For us here on earth

And sufficient even for heaven.

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My passion for children ...And Teenagers

Passion For Children

And Teenagers

Childhood and Teenage years

Are two most critical stages

In a person’s life

These are the periods

When parents, the schools

And the total environment

Mould (or mar) the children

Such vulnerability

elicited my passion for them

Enhanced with enabling contributions

To shape their focus

Or direction in life

So that they may live purposeful

And vision-driven lives

That will ensure

That their today

Would be better

Than our today

And their tomorrow

Brighter than our tomorrow

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Many Guarantees in Life

Many Guarantees

 in Life

Birth, death, tax;

Sunshine, rainfall;

Brightness and Darkness

The Moon and the stars

Fresh Air, Constant change

Good and Bad successes

Failures,

Pain and pleasure

Day and Night

Thoughtfulness and mediocrity

Peace and War

Rich and Poor

Wear and Tear

God and Man’s existence

Male and female genders

Deserts and Tropics

The rotation and movement

Of the planet earth around its orbits

The oceans, the seas, the rivers,

The streams, and swamps

The rocks and the solid ground

The sky and the milky galaxy

The vegetation, the animals

The valleys, the level lands

And the mountains,

The struggle between good and evil

All these and many more

Are guaranteed to remain constant in life

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Don't be caught by the snare called "Conflict of Interest"!

Conflict of Interest

No organisation wants disloyal

and corrupt employees

So it ab initio makes employees

To sign a conflict of interest document

Unfortunately majority of employees

Invariably misinterpret such document

To limit or eliminate investment

In their own future

Or prohibit them

From setting up their own businesses

This is a wrong notion or assumption

That will neither compete nor conflict

With their employment or employer

To be sure to avoid such situation

Employees should skip businesses

That deal directly or indirectly

With their employers

Either as Suppliers or Contractors.

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Everybody Owes Money, But you Must

Discover or

Invent Something

Yes, Bill Gates,

With his computers

Has captured the globe

The Wright brothers

Put the airplane in the air

The ships sail majestically in the oceans

The automobiles cruise about

On the highways

The calculators,

The palmtops,

The handhelds

And all the gadgets

Have synchronized together

Our private and official lives

To the little-minded therefore

All these inventions suggests

An end to further development or invention

I can assure you

There are still uncountable ideas undiscovered

And to be invented

That will make the discoverer stand out

As Bill Gates, the current champion!

 Think of one, work on it,

And bring it to the market place

Whatever you come up with

Your potential customers are waiting

Ready to pay for it, any day, any time

So your greatness awaits you

Just try your hand at it.

Everybody, including the writer

Owes you some money

So, you, everybody

Some money

So your wealth is in my hands

While mine is in yours

But the immutable law says:

Unless I give you something of value

And you do same to me,

We will not exchange the monies

between us!

This supports the Biblical command

That when you give,

In return, you receive

Good measure, pressed down

And running over.

Even in the house of God

where salvation is inherently free

The people of God

still need to pay a price –

forgoing their old odd ways

And embrace Christ,

Showing mercy, devotion and love

And in return receiving salvation,

Forgiveness, prosperity, peace and joy

So to deny the law

Of sowing and harvesting

Is a big lie

So begin now to add value

To the lives of others

And thereby increase the value

Of your own life!

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Polygamy is a Snare, if caught by it what do you do?

Polygamy

And Women

Polygamy, though permissible culturally

Is not the best thing

To happen to anybody

If, however, as a woman

You are ensnared in it,

How would you live it?

Would you follow the ancient

(And now deadly modernized) route

Of leaving the substance

And chasing the shadows?

Would  you engage yourself

In such destiny busters

As quarreling with your rivals,

Setting your children against theirs,

Going for magical means

To win your husband to your side

Or worse still

Engaging yourself, praying for nothing else

But for God to help

Kill your rivals - envying?

Or would you, in humility and wisdom,

Do what Daddy Adeboye’s Mum did

When in a similar situation

In a polygamous setting?

Read what she did:

While the other women busied

Fighting their husband,

Daddy Adeboye’s Mom rather

Praised the man

For being ‘brave, kind, etc’

When her mates

Were mocking their husband

About his weaknesses,

Daddy’s mummy insisted on

Re-echoing,  to his hearing, his strengths

His redoubtable exploits!

Proclaiming her husband

As the best man

God ever created!

Where the wives demonstrated

How tough they could be

To their husband,

Daddy’s Mum dealt lovingly

With her husband

Never challenging his authority!

For those reasons,

She was able to get

The best attention possible

From her husband

She was able to bring her children

close to their father

Instead of distancing them

Today, one of her own

Has ended up being a great pillar

in the world.

In humility too, he calls himself

Simply “a Pastor”

But Presidents, Governors, Ministers,

The high and mighty of society

Call him Daddy, Bishop, Prophet!

Christendom sees him righteously

A true man of God,

A man whose early aspiration

Was to become the youngest Vice Chancellor of a University

Has now been promoted by God

To establish a University!

If old Mum, Adeboye,

Had not displayed

A rare wisdom

In her polygamous home

It is possible

She would have lost this genius

To the bickering and infighting

That usually characterise

The polygamous family!

Women in polygamy,

Choose ye this day

Who your mentor would be

But I dare recommend to you

Daddy Adeboye’s Mom

And reap the benefits

Of her humility and wisdom

With which she tackled and untangled

The knotty webs of polygamy

She had stooped to conquer

Why can’t you?

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Want to live long & Make It?

If You Want to Live Long

To live a long life

And enjoy peace of mind

Four things must not be far

From where you live -

Your Office,

Your Children’s school,

Your church

And your Hospital.

To Make It In Life

Anyone who wants to succeed in life

Will try his or her hands

In two directions

The first is to work for people

And be paid

The alternative is

To become one’s own employer

One’s life is more secured

In the latter category, but

Where one chooses the former

His or her long term goal should be

To be on one’s own.

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Of Poverty and Riches

The Meanings

Of Poverty And Riches

Poverty and riches

Should not be measured

only in money

A person can be financially buoyant

And yet be intellectually, morally,

And spiritually deficient

There is richness

Or poverty of ideas and

There is richness

Or poverty of vision too

He who is rich spiritually

And financially, intellectually

Is the person

Who is truly rich

He will live a happy life

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Obama's Mother, A Lesson to Womahood.

"He who findeth a wife fideth a good thing and favour from God"

"Only few African mothers, especially those in polygamous homes, would do just that - leave the fates of their children in the hands of God to determine rather than manipulate them."

We all, especially Africans, hailed the ascendancy of President Barak Obama to the Presidency of the United States of America but not many realised the greatest lessons to learn from how he came to power.

In the life of President Barak Obama, humanity is reminded of a certain unchanging principle of life. The principle is that all of us but women in particular should “do our best and leave everything about our children’s fate in the hands of God. The same lessons go for our children's education, career, marriage, parenting, etc.

Obama’s father, a man from Kenya found his way to America years back. He did what an average African would do – get hooked to an American lady? For one reason or the other, the marriage did not work. So there was a divorce. But there were links that could not be broken, their children. Somewhere along the line, Obama died. That was enough to deal a permanent blow to the linkage of young Obamas with their Kenyan roots.

But alas, like the Biblical Ruth, their mother left them to freely relate with their 'rich' African heritage. This is not withstanding the fact that their biological grandmother in particular, was dead. Lady Obama threw young Obama into the mouths of what an average African woman would call “lions in their den”, thereby exposing her children to ‘maximum’ risk imaginable on planet earth.

Young Obamas in their innocency enjoyed the whole drama. And God kept them safe! Today, in spite of the deadly exposures, Barak Obama has become the first Black-American President!

This is a lesson to our over-protective but would they not rather rejoice and cite the example of Obama without the willingness to take the risks his mother took? Only few African mothers, especially those in polygamous homes, would do just that - leave the fates of their children in the hands of God to determine rather than manipulate them. Also, whether by design or default, Obama’s father found a good woman albeit, in a distant land just as Ruth was to Israelites such that even in death, God’s name is glorified through him. Again, an African couples take divorce as the end of a relationship but the Obama’s, especially the woman who ought not to forgive saw it the other way round. Today her name is recorded in history as the “Ruth of our time”! Obama’s mother, like the biblical Ruth, is a lesson to W O M A N H O O D! .

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Pastoring, An Escape Route?

Becoming a Pastor,

An Escape Route?

Many people are rushing

To the pulpit

Even without divine urging

Because they think

It is an escape route

But the truth is obvious

That pastoring

Is not a career for mediocres

Apart form being truly

And divinely called

Spiritually and intellectually

To fulfill her mission

Basically he should be

A qualified member

Of a particular profession

As demonstration to his followers

That even if he were in the secular world,

He would equally have made it in life.

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Positive Flashes: Obsession to Succeed

Obsession to Succeed

Yes, some dreams could be  stillborn

If this happens to you

Dream another dream,

See another vision

Read about those who dreamt and failed

But who never stopped dreaming until they made it

Search through the Scriptures

Discuss with people

Listen to Your inner voice

You will discover many more things to do

That will lead you to prosperity

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The Good, The Bad and The Ugly Side of Feminism

"Now that women are on the same level, they want the control of their bodies - that was the birth of radical feminism in which women decided that they are so independent and they don’t need to marry. It even affected the way they dress, they are wearing trousers now. There was this era in which women decided to have their children without men. They got to the stage of getting married to women and not men. At that stage, feminism became ridiculous and I see it as even more than ridiculous, it’s no longer self-respecting. "

Zaynab Alkali

"Flora Nwakpa denied being a feminist, Buchi Emecheta said she is a feminist with a small eye. Zaynab Alkali too has not said she is not a feminist. I know that there are three categories of feminism, when I studied feminism, I took it from the 16th Century up to date and I know that feminism underwent transformation. It began as an advocacy for female rights and it would educate you about how feminism was practised from the 16th to the 18th Century, in the west.

Women in the south were not allowed to vote. When they work in the mines or anywhere in the factories, they were paid less even though the jobs they did were the same with men. Women were not allowed contraceptives. So a woman who marries at the age of 20 by the time she is 40 or 45 could have about 15 children even at the risk of a failing health. Women were not allowed to study Medicine, Engineering and Law. They were only allowed to study Nursing, Teaching, House keeping, Sewing, among others, so that they can serve the men. Women at this stage have genuine cause, then as the struggle moved to the 18th Century and by the time it moved to the 20th Century, women were able to acquire all those rights. They came on the same path with men. As far as I am concerned, feminism should have stopped at the 20th Century but it did not.

Now that women are on the same level, they want the control of their bodies - that was the birth of radical feminism in which women decided that they are so independent and they don’t need to marry. It even affected the way they dress, they are wearing trousers now. There was this era in which women decided to have their children without men. They got to the stage of getting married to women and not men. At that stage, feminism became ridiculous and I see it as even more than ridiculous, it’s no longer self-respecting. So if you ask me if am a feminist? I would say no. I am not a feminist from the 20 and 21 centuries. I have no objection to human rights and socialist feminism. Here in Nigeria or in Africa, the problems that have been outlined for the 16th to 20th Century feminism are not applicable to us. I have never worked in a place where a man was paid N20,000 and I was paid N10,000 for the same job. I have never been denied my voting rights. I have never been denied studying professional courses.

So what are we talking about? Even religion has given women the rights. The problem we have is just the implementation of these rights. When I talk like this, the feminists would say Zaynab has thrown sand into the feminist garri."  The Sun, 14th Jan. 2010

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