Tuesday, March 9, 2010

The Complexities of Marriage



Mrs. Kikelomo's husband travelled for a few days.  On his return, he met the absence of his wife.  A few minutes later the wife arrived  a ceremony, gorgeously dressed, looking radiant.  Kike's husband asked where she was coming from.  She said she was coming from a ceremony to which she was invited by a close colleague of hers.  The husband became furious.  "How on earth would you attend a ceremony without my knowledge?"  He demanded an instant apologies and an assurance that history of that nature would not repeat itself. Kike didn't feel it was a serious matter as to demand such.  So she refused.  The husband became agitated and unhappy at Kike since then.  It degenerated to a serous problem for the family and it was beginning of a divorce proceeding against Kike.

The above 80% real-life story of Kike is what is going on is  some homes today.  Spouses don't understand what it takes to be a couple.  That consent is required from one another before any outing or activity could take place.  That a woman, in particular needs the consent of her husband to engage in party-going and that it spells doom for her if she disobey this rule.    A man equally owes his wife prior explanation as to his movements otherwise the wife may be tempted to become suspicious of him.  

Are all these out of sheer jealousy?  No.  It is natural that since the two have become one, one half cannot be independent of another in all activities involving the relationship.  It is therefore instructive that couples should be 100% open to themselves. This s how complex the relationship called "marriage" can be!

 

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